WISCONSIN STATE JOURNAL ARTICLE--Christmas 2015

WISCONSIN STATE JOURNAL ARTICLE--Christmas 2015
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Tuesday, October 27, 2015

The END IS NEAR!!

Lori Kietzke Oehlhof uploaded a new video.
3 hrsMilwaukee, WI
Feng Yu is rocking his physical therapy. He is such a social guy and loves getting out of the room and playing with other toys and of course the therapists! Last night the family visited and we all played bingo and had dinner together in the cafeteria!
Today he had the pic line removed and more freedom with approval to leave the picu with just mom! And no machines! Earlier in the day we just roamed the floor but this afternoon we ventured to p5 playroom!!! All by ourselves!! Love the nurses but sometimes it's just nice to be alone with your children.
The action plan is for discharge soon! He needs to keep chest X-ray clear. Eat a little more. 2/3 of his calories have been coming through Iv but as of tonight he's on his own. Pray for his appetite to rebound. Pray for his body to be stabilized on all his oral medications. Can you believe this miracle???? How awesome is our God we serve???


Lori Kietzke Oehlhof at Sutter's Ridge Family Farm
Day 28 update! Making great progress towards busting out of here. Joseph's chest xray looked really good this morning. They will do a more complete x ray in the morning with his standing. We are reducing his IV meds and transferring to oral heart meds. All his lasix are oral at this point. His oxygen was removed today and he is holding around 95-96. He will never be at 100% due to his leaky mitral value that has some mild regrugitation that mixes blue/red blood.  He is considered a 1 1/2 ventricle repair, which is as good as it gets for him. A perfect heart for him! He is getting a bit antsy and irritated with being in the hospital (so am I) Pray for him as we get through these last few days. Pray that he will continue to improve so we may go home within the next few days!!! Nobody has officially mentioned it, but pray it's close so these kiddos can get back to "normal" life!


Never know what might they might try to do to me! Joseph has prepared himself for battle! In true Situs inversus fashion he is sporting his new shirt backwards. It's the best way he knows how to do things.---flipped, inside out, rotated, twisted, opposite just a few adjectives to name his anatomy. And as his shirt say "Jesus loves the little children of the world , they are precious in His sight". He was created perfect in His sight. We are so fortunate to be named his parents. What a joy and blessing!



Chest tubes are gone!!!! Pray pray pray we do not have them return. The plan for the next few mornings is to watch for reaccumulation of fluid and reinsert if necessary. Pray his body continues to absorb the fluid and his lymphatic system evens out. The surgery on Friday at this point looks to be successful! Ryan and I were treated to a date courtesy of the hospital last night. Tickets to the Overture Center. First time for us! What a treat! Thanks to grandpa who picked up the other five kiddos from the hospital, took them home and put them to bed. And we will never forget the fine nurses who take diligent care of Joseph. He seems to get extra attention if I'm out of the room.



All done! Things went well. A few good things to report. His cardiac pressures are better than expected. His nerve in the diaphragm that was damaged has been restored! Amen!!! The placation surgery two weeks ago allowed him to breath these two weeks without support and now the nerve has regenerated! So wonderful! Now the infamous chest tube drainage.... They clamp the tube during surgery to allow a pocket of fluid to form. Then they place the new tube in that pocket of fluid. During the five hours no substantial fluid formed. Therefore no drain tube could be placed. The old tube was removed and now the hope is he will continue to absorb the fluid through his lymphatic system rather than leak out into the plural space. If this procedure works we may be onto a great solution!!!!! Pray this is the case and there are no complications from today's procedure. The picture is from our special visitors last night.


Update: They started a little before 10 am. A catheterization was added to the plan this morning, which I was in agreement. Confirmation that his anatomy is doing well puts me at ease! His caridac pressures (15) were better than expected (20's) but still higher than prior to surgery (7-8). Good news for him! FYI a normal child would be around 3. Feng Yu is still in procedure for the thoracic duct embolization. The dye has made it's way upward and they are plugging the hole (s). The needle goes straight through the abdomen (with ultrasound guidance)  and the hole is sealed with basically medical super glue. His cardiac surgeon was even in awe of this technical work! What a gift to be afforded this delicate medical treatment. Thank you Lord for all these hands working on Joseph! He should be back in the room within a couple hours.

The days continue to mount as we reside in our new home away from home. Today is day 24. Not that I'm counting! We do have a new plan of action. I like action better than waiting. I am not a sit around kind of person. The plan at the beginning of the week was to let his chest tubes drain on their own and hopefully dry up. We were giving them another week. But over the last two days he has gone in the wrong direction with drainage output actually increasing out of the left side! Today the plan was to change his tube out that is getting irritated and infected looking. They were prepared for the procedure this morning but the placement and fluid area was too risky between the lungs. So onto plan B for the radiology interventionists to attempt placement tomorrow. In addition they are going to do a procedure called thoracic duct embolization to help decrease the amount of fluid draining. Procedures are set for 9 am.



Feng Yu got a little spruced up in the hospital today. Tomorrow at 7:30 am he will have one of his chest tubes changed under sedation. Dr A will be doing it. The current tubes have been in for 23 days and the one is getting sore and irritated. Drainage was at 430 for the last 24 hours. Slowly making our way there! Eating is marginal- consuming less than 10 grams of fat a day for a diet is really boring! He continues to have a good attitude and enjoys getting out of our room for walks or rides. Pray for successful and uneventful procedure in the morning.

Tuesday, October 20, 2015

More hospital updates!

His ambulatory ability is returning day by day and his spirit comes through with a few smiles now and then! 6 . The overwhelming love and support we have received. Thank you to everyone. We feel very loved. Things to pray for..... His stomach and intentional issues. He is not being fed any food through his feeding tube. Only clear liquids and fluids right now. Amazing how he moves after two weeks living only on fluid. His intestines need to start absorbing nutrients and accepting food. Pray for the Drs and us as we decide if a surgical intervention is needed to tack down his malrotated intestines. (Ladd's procedure). Pray for his fluid in his lungs to continue to clear out. We have a long long way to go before chest tubes can come out!







News of the day!! Praise for Feng YuS ability to eat food after 16 long days post surgery! And keep it down!!!!Amen for that! Still planning on a ultrasound in the am to check anatomy. Pray now for plural effusions to dry up. Thank you to the body of Christ who has shown so much in loving us in tangible ways. It's hard to accept help at times, but so comforting to know we don't walk this road alone. Romans 15:13. Has been my go to verse.
Our hope is in the Lord




Getting our kids back on a bike is the best PT! Runs in the family.



Day 18 of our hospital stay. Yes it is getting long, and some days things seems to move more backwards than forwards. I am reminded to step back and look at the big picture. Only three weeks ago, lived with 80% oxygen and ran around until his stats fell to 60's and he would fall to the ground in exhaustion. Now he is at 100 % with limited support! His heart is now functioning in a sinus rhythm and he will not need a pace maker! His spirit has returned and his spunky little self it showing more often. Today I even heard his sweet voice tell me "mama, you're pretty", as he stroked my face. It's moments like that, that make me continue, make me fight for him and all those left behind! There are thousands in China, Millions of children around the world waiting to know that they are loved! Waiting for a mama and dada to love them through the hard times...... and so many times it's us who are rewarded over and again!
Feng Yu has returned to eating (AMEN!!!), but his body is not processing fats well at this point. The second picture shows his drain tubes. That is called chylothorax. Basically the fat draining from his plural space in his chest. So he is limited to 12 grams of fat.day. He has excessive drainage and we are days, if not a week or more, from taking the chest tubes out. He has been putting out between 550-670 ml of fluid a day in his chest tubes. We need to below 40 ml for a few days in a row to remove them. Pray, pray for this!
Please pray for perseverance for our family and other children at home. This is such a long period to be apart from one another. Especially the newly adopted kiddos to understand home will return to normal once again. Ryan has been blessed with help with meals and cleaning from church friends and neighbors, and grandparents closeby help things go smoothly too. He has done an exceptional job with managing school schedules, dr appointments and continuing to work from home. Not to mention the daily running of the house. Thank you for your prayers and support.
Adoption is not about us! It is not about growing a perfect little family (or in our case BIG family). We are growing and learning that in all circumstances our strength comes from the Lord. And in these moments when things seem hard to see our son suffer, I can know my God suffered so much more..... he sent his own son to die so that we might live. Ryan and I are called to adoption and we live in faith of the true healer who can heal our son.




Saturday all the children came up to the hospital, while James and Dad went to the Badger game. James was chosen through a drawing to be on the American Family Children's Hospital patio during the game. He was treated like royalty and loved all the goodies and extra fun during the game! The other kiddos and I watched the game at the hospital with Feng Yu. Huahua did her best therapy with him and played with him. These two have a bond that is incredible!
Mom got a break last night from the hospital. With mixed emotions, I left the hospital with the other five children and drove home. The kids asked how I felt to be out of the hospital after 19 days? I told them it was hard to leave Feng Yu and Dad behind at the hospital. And it was. How do you leave your child behind? He knew I would return the next day to be with him. But it still ached in my heart to leave him at the hospital knowing he is so sick. It leads me back to the day when his birth parent left him in front of an orphanage gate with a broken heart four years ago; what anguish their heart must have been in? Oh the pain this little boy has seen. I cry out to the Lord "why? Why must we live in this fallen world?"
But as I knew what was best for our other children, I needed to go home and be with them for awhile. I needed to rest and regroup for another long journey that lies ahead.
The children and I went to a hayride with church this afternoon before returning to the hospital. Today, as much as I wanted to come and see my sweet boy, I cried, knowing what we still have left to endure here. I ache for him and the long days ahead, and the separation from those he loves. Yes, this hospital is amazing and he is taken care of so well. But we are so, so ready to go home and be a family again!



We saw sunshine today !!!! On the outside of the hospital !!!! 21 days later after entering the hospital he was allowed outside for some fresh air. Joseph enjoyed watching the cars and action in front of the hospital . Biggest reaction was for the Harley that pulled in. The boy loves his bikes! Medically were just holding stable. Chest tube drainAge continues to be the main concern. Consensus is to give him another week to dry up before proceeding with surgical intervention . Pray for his pressures to stabilize so his body stops producing this excess fluid.